Friday, November 17, 2006

HOW CHRONIC FATIQUE HAS AFFECTED MY LIFE

By Triston Huntsmin

Many of you have heard the term 'chronic fatigue' I am sure. Far fewer of you probably know the technical, medical knowledge about the disease. While I could share with you page after page, hour after hour of information on chronic fatigue, I think it is more appropriate to share just how deeply chronic fatigue has affected my life.

I grew up just like many other kids. I loved to play outside until darkness came and I loved to push the limit with my parents every night about bedtime. As a child, there was nothing better than when my mom or dad took time away from their busy schedules to play with me and my siblings. I loved nothing more than when my dad's car pulled into the driveway and he came around back to join us in whatever game we happened to be playing. I have year after year of great memories of afternoons and summer days spent playing with my dad. That was all before chronic fatigue happened of course.

I was in junior high when my dad first began showing symptoms of what would later be diagnosed as chronic fatigue. It was interesting because I remember that the sickness seemed to come upon him slowly and yet all at once. I remember that his energy levels slowly disappeared until he could barely get out of bed to make it to work somedays. He was tested for a wide variety of things, but it was a couple of years before the diagnosis of chronic fatigue was made.

Because I was too young to fully understand the problems that were plaguing my dad's body, his chronic fatigue was a source of frustration and anger to me. I didn't like it that my dad no longer was able to play catch with me in the back yard or that he rarely made it to my Saturday soccer games anymore. He tried to explain his chroic fatigue to me over and over, but often I would get made and storm out of the room. How could my dad, so healthy and active and young just a few years before, be unable to make it out of bed in the morning?

Once my dad was officially diagnosed with chronic fatigue, it was many months before an effective treatment plan could be figured out by his doctors. They tried curbing his chronic fatigue with many diet and exercise plans. They tried getting him to sleep longer at night and nap during the day. Our family stopped eating many of the foods we loved most each time mom began preparing a new diet for dad's chronic fatigue. The cafeteria at school and an occasional meal with friends became my only retreat from the boring and tasteless foods my dad was now destined to eat because of chronic fatigue.

My point in saying these things is simply to share in brief the ways chronic fatigue has affected my life. While I am very thankful to all of the doctors that have worked on my dad and made his condition bearable, I still miss the dad I had before chronic fatigue came and stole his life and our time together away.

Author Triston Huntsmin enjoys writing pieces that reflect true parts of his life. He hopes to inspire others to get honest about the ways that life is affecting them. Learn more about chronic fatigue at www.chronicfatiguenews.info
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Lisa Copen said: I had just received the third pink slip in two weeks from the lab that said my payment was passed due. Over three times I had called and my insurance company had assured me that the lab work was covered and that they would mail out a check that afternoon. This time, when I finally got a representative on the telephone, I was polite but firm. I said that I wanted the problem taken care of immediately, and I wrote down her name and the supervisor’s name. It was time to get even more assertive.

Read more of this "Learning to be assertive despite the fatique of illness" by Lisa Copen.
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2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Thanks so much for posting a bit about my article on becoming more assertive when living with chronic illness. It can be difficult because we rarely have extra energy and we may be labeled as "grumpy" already by those around us (at least part of time). yet there is a big difference between being assertive and being agressive. Gentle--but firm assertiveness--as silly as that sounds, can often get us past the gatekeepers. I often find myself saying to customer service reps on the phone, "look, I know this isn't your fault and not really your problem, but I'm going to keep calling until I get an answer, and I would really appreciate it a lot of if you could help me out." When they do, I say, "Thank you for going above and beyond the call of duty (or your job description.) You've made my day!" Imagine your surprise if someone told YOU that! You'd go out of your way to help them out and be nice. I've also taken that extra minute to leave a message for a supervisor about someone who has been very helpful for me. Too often we find ourselves having ample opportunity to complain about insurance companies, telemarketers, whatever. It's nice to balance that out by spreading some joy too.

Lisa Copen
Rest Ministries Chronic Illness/Pain Support

Simon said...

Thanks Lisa for visiting my blog.
Hows your day today? Hope it is great,..